1818 Feb. 2

Not Paul

III. Doctrine

Ch. Motives to Doctrine

Asceticism II. Bed

I. Ordinary

2. Married state

4. Conduct of persons engaged in marriage: viz. 1. as to the manner of living in

/under/ that contact: next as to /next as to the dissolution of it: lastly the/

persons with whom it shall be contracted /entered into/. In each instance by the

interest of his ambition, conformable or unconformable to the interests of

Christianity and morality respectively, we shall find the /his/ decision may be seen

to be governed /determined/.

By and Between persons already engaged in that contract, he consents, such his

indulgence—he consents rather than fornication should have place—fornication that

occupation by which a greater degree of destruction presents itself to his discerning

eyes /eye/ as likely to be produced—he consents that in

general the pleasure for the reaping of which it was instituted shall be reaped.

But to this general rule he applies /attaches/ an exception as hath been seen.†

† Suprà. §. Pleasures of the table.

I. Cor. vii. 2. 3. 4. 5. 6. 7. 2. Nevertheless, { to avoid} fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let

every woman have her own husband.

3. Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife

unto the husband.

4. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the

husband hath not power over his own body, but the wife.

5. Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time that he may

give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you

not for your incontinency.

6. But I speak this by permission, and not of commandment.

7. For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper

gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.
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    And the man that committeth adultery with another man’s wife, even he that committeth

    adultery with his neighbour’s wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be

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    2. Deuteronomy XXII. 22. If a man be found lying with a woman married to an husband,

    then they shall both of them die, both the man that lay with

    the woman, and the woman: so shalt thou put away evil from Israel.

    3. Deuteronomy XXIV. 1. 2. 3. 4. When a man hath taken a wife and married her, and it

    come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some

    uncleanness in her, then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house.

    2. And when she is departed out of his house she may go and be another man’s wife.

    3. And if the latter husband hate her, and write her a bill of divorcement and giveth

    it in her hand, and sendeth her out of his house, or if the

    latter husband die, which took her to be his wife,

    4. Her former husband which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife,

    after she is defiled; for that is abomination before the Lord: and thou shat not

    cause the land to sin, which the Lord thy God giveth thee for

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    which the Lord thy God giveth thee, man or woman, that hath wrought wickedness in the

    sight of the Lord thy God, in transgressing his covenants,

    3. And hath gone and served other gods, and worshipped them, either the Sun, or moon,

    or any of the host of heaven, which I have not commanded;

    4. And it be told thee, and thou hast heard of it, and enquired diligently, and,

    behold it be true, and the thing certain, that such abomination is wrought in Israel:

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    wicked thing, unto thy gate, even that man or that woman, and shall stone them with

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    whole. But if without opposition from the other it be the pleasure of either to

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